Walking around the world...
in search of this thing called LOVE.
besides work, the whole world i know in my world battles with LOVE every single day.
So why is it that everyone in the world is so obsessed with the idea/feeling/notion of love? i myself included.
so much so that people will do anything and everything, i mean even murder their lover in the name of love.
is love just merely an excuse for everything in our existence?
when something doesnt happen, people blame love.
when something happens, people rejoice in the name of love.
it's so strange isn't it?
then does anyone who puts love easily at the tip of their tongues know the meaning of love anyways?
many in marriages and are marrying in the name of love i know dont even really know what it is.
is love merely something anyone can give a definition THEIR definition of ?
puzzling isn't it?
Venus and Mars in Love.
Previously, i was not really convinced that women and men originated from different planets, but from my own experiences, im really starting to buy into that idea.
Venus and Mars meets on Earth, both searching for this magic called LOVE!
and in the process inevitably there is pain & suffering involved.
In every generation.
Venus hurts, Mars gets hurts. Mars hurts, Venus gets hurt.
Does this even end?
Sometimes i wish we all had some clue to successful relationships.
Wouldn't this place be better if everyone has that key to building successsful & meaningful relationships?
I know productivity would definitely sky rocket if that happens.
Until then, im still in my own research journey. Eventually i wish i could pass on the knowledge of love relationships to women who might need it or am in search of it.
Today i found something interesting, about 2 kinds of women. And im going to share this very valuable information.
At least i think it is!
The 2 kinds of women. 1. The kind men love 2. The kind men leave.
Source from EZ@rticles.
For some reason there are women men love and women men leave. Now the question is which one you are. Well, which ever one you are, there is hope for you. There are ways you can adjust your life and behavior to become a woman men love and not a woman men leave.
If you want to become a woman your man will love and not leave the first think you have to do is find out what he needs from you. Once you know this you can make sure you meet his needs. If your man gets what he needs from the relationship, he is far less likely to take off. You will be surprised how often this simple principle is ignored. I think it is because many women think meeting their man's needs mean they have to be completely subservient and of course she does not want to do this.
Luckily, this is totally wrong. No man with a healthy self-esteem wants to use a woman as a doormat. If he wants that, there is something wrong and you should not be in a relationship with him then, in any case. If a man is secure in himself, he will want a woman with a mind of her own, but he also wants her to be his best friend and his biggest fan!
Do not make the mistake to think that if you give your man all the sex he needs and if you dress up in sexy lingerie you are meeting his needs! Well, that is also not true. If sex is all a man wants from you, you had better get yourself another man. A man with more depth will need more than that from you. No one denies that sex is an important part of a relationship, but if it is all your relationship is built on, it will fail at some point.
For a long term healthy relationship you have to build it on more than only physical intimacy. When you are young you do not want to believe it, but as you get older sex gets more difficult for many reasons and then there has to be something else in your relationship. So, you must work on the other factors of your relationship a swell. You do not want to be left with nothing to take intimacy's place!
The tragic things is that it is mostly the women who try the hardest to be what their man wants from them, that are the women men ends up leaving. All the love, appreciation he needs has to be real. If he can detect that you do not really admire him and desire him it is no good pretending you are. Any man will bore very quickly from such a woman and leave her once the novelty has worn off. Your man wants a real woman with a character of her own.
The message is that you have a choice. You now know the difference between women men love and women men leave. It is up to you to make the choice. This does not mean you have to give up your own personality it only means you have to be yourself while you try and understand his needs. You decide whether you are a woman men will love or a woman, men will leave.
TBC....
rocking while i watch animal planet is definitely what i call LIFE! :)
